Sexuality is a process. Yet, many of us live it mostly in short fragments — a hookup, a
workshop, a moment of touch, a sudden spark. People come and go, yet rarely do we get
the time to stay with them and slowly build an intimacy that isn’t based on instant chemistry.

This three week container invites a small group of GBTQ men* into something very simple
yet unusual: To commit to a group in advance, and explore together their bodies, sexualities
and the relationships that gradually emerge between them.

By continuously meeting with each other, we give trust the time to develop and vulnerability
the space to ripen. We form shared stories and create a place where touch could acquire
context. Where there is time not just for arousal and desire, but also for hesitations, shame
and fears. Because not today does not mean never: there is another session, another
chance to check and experiment. We not only have the present, but also a future together.
 

The theme of our joint explorations will be the genitals. Starting from an exploration of social
narratives around them and personal histories they carry, progressing into playing with
showing/witnessing genitals, and in the final session - introducing the possibility of
interacting with them through touch. This container is intended for queer people on the
masculine spectrum (GBTQ*). All kinds of genitals are welcome.

This journey will be based in tools and games from Somatics, Constellation work and
Consent practices. The approach is playful and the rhythm is slow and reflective.
Personal authority is always emphasized, along with the possibility to adapt and
change the proposed frame so that it aligns with what I want to do — and with what
my body is telling me.

 

Outline of the Sessions
Session 1 – Social Narratives and personal history (3.5 hours)
We begin fully clothed and dedicate the first session to exploring what is already here, in the
background, and is present for us, when we engage with genitals. Through Constellation and
somatics, we come into contact with social narrative and our personal histories.

This session aims to support grounding, clarity, trust, and the emergence of a shared field.

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Session 2 – Visibility, Nudity, Witnessing (3.5 hours)
In this session we play directly with showing our genitals and witnessing others (nudity is
optional). Taking the time to feel the vulnerability and the excitement of seeing and being
seen with a clear and hard external boundary: No genital touch will take place.

This is a bridge between the more reflective work of the first session, into a more sensual
and relational realm: what is happening between me and others right now.

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Session 3 – Genital Touch (4.5 hours)
The final meeting is longer, to allow touch to slowly develop and process the whole
experience as a group in the end. We will explore delicate ways of approaching the genitals
through simple and quiet touch. Emphasizing listening and building the emotional safety
required in order to become receptive, before getting more (if at all) active.

 

Personal Integration Call (Included)
After the group process, each participant is invited to a 45-minute individual integration
call with me. This is a space for digesting the experience, attending what is in need of
care, and integrating the process into your life.

Logistics
This process is intended for a small and closed group (max 10), and commitment to
participate in all sessions is part of what we are experimenting with.

We will meet on Saturdays:
28.02 and 07.03, from 16:30– 20:00
Final session on 14.03, from 16:00 – 20:30
The participation fee is €250.

I also offer 3 reduced-rate spots (€175) for those for whom the standard rate is a barrier.
Paying in two installments is also possible (write me).

For tickets click here.

Committing in advance to such an intimate process can feel like a leap into the unknown,
which can be scary, raise questions, concerns and hesitations. I will be happy to address all
of these together, either via email or a short video call. If we don’t yet know each other, write
me